Single queens, you have to learn to appreciate and love yourself regardless of whether or not a man does that for you. The way you see and treat yourself while you are single won't automatically change, when you get in a relationship. You have to learn to love and appreciate yourself, just as you are. You have got to strive for greatness and treat yourself right, while you're single. Your worth is something that only you will have to work on. Regardless of what someone says or does, what matters ultimately is you. You can decide whether or not to be around anyone who does not add to your self worth in anyway. Sister, you are powerful! Relationships take work. Start treating yourself like a queen right now, while you wait for that prince charming, who will come and sweep you off your feet. A man won't treat you better than you treat yourself. Be your own motivator and energizer. You deserve to be happy. Things started to change in my life when I made a conscious and deliberate decision to treat myself like the queen that I am. I won't put myself in a position to be treated like trash. Not anymore. I am too valuable and awesome for that. Ladies, we are all too valuable and awesome to be treated like trash.